Baby Pictures
Have you seen
baby pictures of yourself? If so, what
did you look like? Do you look enough
like yourself, that a friend could recognize your baby picture and say, “hey,
that’s you!” Or do you just look like
any old baby?
Did your
family take a lot of pictures when you were a child? Did they take more pictures of the first child and less of later
children? Do you have some favorite
pictures of yourself as a child? What
are they? Did your family take videos
of family events? If yes, give
examples.
Do you like to
take pictures? What do you do with
pictures? Do you create memory books or
just stuff them in a box somewhere? Do
you ever go back and look at old pictures?
What do you think about when you look at pictures? What memories come back to mind when you
look at pictures?
Do you frame
family photos? Do you decorate your
house with pictures? Do you ever get
professional photographs taken? How
satisfied are you with professional photographs?
What do you
like to do to keep memories alive?
Perhaps it’s writing in a diary or journal, or writing letters, or
drawing pictures or just planning events that create emotions and so create
memories. Do you treat pleasant
memories and unpleasant memories differently?
What is the best way to deal with an unpleasant memory?
Some cultures
have traditions of remembering ugly things.
For example – some countries hate another country because they remember
a terrible war or event from several hundred years ago. Do you think this is a wise thing to
do? Why or why not?
Paul, in the Bible says, think about the good things:
“Finally, my
brothers and sisters, always think about what is true. Think about what is noble, right and
pure. Think about what is lovely and worthy
of respect. If anything is excellent or
worthy of praise, think about those kinds of things.” Phil 4:8
And a song from the Old Testament says:
“Lord, I will remember what you did. Yes, I will remember your miracles of long
ago. I will spend time thinking about
everything you have done. I will
consider all of your mighty acts.”
Psalm 77:11-12